Homeschooling the Buddha

The modern day buddhist may feel that we’ve got access to an unlimited amount of dharma material – yet the structure and timing of our practice is left to us, it’s undefined.  We can feel as if we’re homeschooling ourselves in a complex topic. Creating a structure and selecting the reading materials, dharma talks, teachers and retreats is entirely up to the individual.

Creating a sitting schedule for yourself is essential – at least I’ve found it to be so.  Morning sits that fit into my routine at the same time every day become much more regular events than any sitting I might do outside of my routine.  If the time slot is designated for sitting, then when the time comes the choice to sit is the default choice.  Once some momentum is achieved, the choice to sit becomes a desire to sit, and the motivation takes care of itself.

Listening to dharma talks and reading continue to develop my intellectual understanding of the path, while sitting grounds that understanding in my experience.  I highly recommend a blend of both for others who are on the path.

We have access to so much information today. Dharma talks can be downloaded freely ( or ( Video webcasts of dharma talks are as well (see for an excellent opportunity to hear Jack Kornfield speak live each week).  These are links to materials from qualified teachers – but try them for yourself to see if they ring true to you.

Sitting groups are also very very good for creating regularity in the practice.  I sit with a group on Tuesday nights ( Sitting with others brings a sense of community, of course (Sangha being one of the 3 buddhist pillars!) but it’s the structure of the weekly sits that I find most beneficial.  The solid 45 minute sit and the dharma talk is a classic format – great for letting yourself soak in a little stillness and wisdom.  There is also the motivation that comes from a shared sense of commitment to the sit.  You start to feel like others benefit from your showing up, since you certainly benefit from others showing up. You feed off of each other’s energy and practice.

Retreats are the gems of modern American buddhist practice.  I feel this way because I’ve gotten so much out of retreats.  Maybe it was the first Goenka retreat where one is advised to do a retreat at least once a year, which planted a very fruitful seed in my mind and practice, but I’ve averaged one every year and a half or so.  The depth of practice – the immersion in the dharma – that can occur during a retreat lets you get a taste of it’s powerful effects.  It brings the reading and dharma talks to life – your life.  It lets you experiment with different techniques. It lets you be a monk for a few days, a week, ten days, or longer.. what a blessing.

If you feel like you’re homeschooling the buddha within and want some help setting up the curriculum-  leave a comment, ask a question, or share what’s worked for you..


One thought on “Homeschooling the Buddha

  1. I just appreciate the simple yet profound every day tools you suggest. It makes it feel more approachable.
    I am far off the structure you have built for yourself. and part of me feels self judgement rise within me when I acknowledge this. but that won’t do me any good! This much I know. So now, I think what I will do- is turn my computer off, and go sit for a few. It’s a beginning.
    Thank you David

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